Small Things

Busy in our lives, we often forget about all of the small things. Do not dwell on the things which you could have done better. Instead, look at what you have attained and reward your achievements. If there is a possibility for improvement, then use this time wisely to acknowledge the learning opportunity which is being presented. Live your life with awareness, as you choose to remember your achievements and keep their memories alive. They can give you strength for when challenges invariably appear in life.

Grab Harmful Thoughts

Every one of your thoughts arises within your mind. Some may flow out into the world in the words you use or speak. When you speak uncaringly, it can harm you even more than it hurts others since your unkind thoughts are the most intense inside you.

 

Make every effort to grab any kind of harmful thoughts in advance of them being communicated. Pause, at that instant, ask yourself do you seriously intend to be this way. Pausing briefly can help to smash the cycle of your conditional reactions, permitting you to transform your thoughts.

Destination Dependency

Be mindful of the destination dependency; where it becomes a fixation with the notion that happiness is elsewhere. That happiness can be magically found at your next destination, at your next job or even with a different companion. Until you surrender the concept that happiness is in another place, it is going to never be where you are.

Power of Thought

Have you honestly taken into consideration the power of your own thoughts. Most of us recognise the notions of positive thinking which can give us all the chance to advance aspects within our lives. In the future, you would definitely never think a detrimental or unfavourable thought if you completely comprehended how potent your thoughts can be. So make every effort to live your life with positivity as well as right thoughts.

Change your Reactions

Your conscious mind absorbs and stores information and reacts to that information, whether it is right, wrong or indifferent.

Apply IOEA (Inhale, Observe your breath, Exhale, Awareness of your thoughts) to change your programmed reactions.

True Kindness

True Kindness is much greater than an expression or a word, it is manifest via your behaviours & actions on a daily basis. Kindness with compassion can aid in bringing back the balance in your life. Today and every day, be that individual of real kindness to sow happiness & joy into the world around you.

Those that Annoy

When there appears to be substantial animosity or conflict in the world; take a breather and consider that, those who annoy, provoke or madden you, effectively control you. Learn how to understand your own thought processes, emotions and feelings so that you may take back control of your life.

Do the Social Media Detox

Spending some time out for a Social Media detox, may on the surface sound easy. Though for many of us, imposing a complete digital ban may not be practical nor sustainable. However, some basic guidelines such as no use of your smartphone or tablet in the first hour of the day, or after 9pm might be more attainable. In this way, you begin to develop self-regulated limits and begin to build a healthy relationship with social networks. If you are feeling more ambitious, you may decide to delete your favourite social media apps from your smart device for a weekend or even a full week.